Episode 46: The Nature of Listening with Robert Dilts

In this episode with Robert Dilts, we explore the art of listening at multiple levels and how it impacts our communication, leadership, and relationships. We discuss how listening goes beyond hearing content and includes tuning into tone, body language, and emotional subtext. The conversation highlights the importance of emotional intelligence in communication, offering strategies for leaders, parents, and anyone looking to connect on a deeper level. Tune in to learn how listening can heal, connect, and transform. 

 

Key Takeaways:  

• The Levels of Listening -Deeper listening goes beyond words to understanding patterns, emotions, and beliefs. It’s about hearing with both the heart and gut, allowing the message to truly connect and move us. 
• Understanding the Message Behind the Tone - True listening goes beyond words. It’s about understanding the emotions and needs behind them. By paying attention to tone and subtext, we connect with the deeper meaning of what’s being said. 
• Listening From Different Parts of Yourself - We all have different sides that affect how we listen. Being aware of which side is active helps us understand our reactions and improve conversations. Recognizing this shift brings balance and deeper insights, making our communication better and more meaningful. 
• Presence in Listening - One of our deepest needs is to be heard, yet in wanting to be heard, we often close ourselves off to listening. When we bring our full presence to a conversation, it allows others to feel heard and fosters more meaningful communication. 
• Connection Before Listening - True connection and suffering rarely coexist—when we connect with others, it opens space for deeper, empathetic listening. By allowing what we hear to touch us, we create a human-to-human connection that goes beyond content, transcending filters and biases. 

 

About Robert Dilts 

Robert Dilts is an internationally recognized leader in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and co-founder of the Dilts Strategy Group. Since the 1970s, he has been a pioneering consultant and trainer, working globally with top organizations to advance leadership, communication, and team development. Known for his Success Factor Modeling™ process, Robert has authored numerous influential books, including Tools for Dreamers and Visionary Leadership Skills, which guide individuals and teams in achieving excellence through enhanced behavioral skills. 

 

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@robertdilts1705 

 

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